Ignoring something doesnt make it go away
Doesnt it suck that you're hurt but you're so worried about making her upset you just ignore what she said? It doesnt help, though because ultimately it'll end up coming up some other way. Based on my experience, the thing about anger or hurt feelings is that it has to go somewhere. Unless you express it to the person, the emotion just stays bottled up and you end up living with this underlying tension and weirdness. You might be keeping your friend happy, but you know who get hurt here:you! Angry. Like crap. Alone. Guilty. Scared of getting in trouble. Not like the true me. Awkward, out of place, uncomfortable. Annoyed with myself. Sick. Ashamed. Disgusted with myself. Like crying! Yess! Mood: Butterfly- Melly Goeslow Ft Andhika Pratam Quite a list reasons to speak up, isnt it? In moments when you're questioning whether to speak your truth to a friend or anyone else. For that matter I think its important to ask yourself "How will I feel i...